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The Purpose of Relationships is not Happiness, but Transformation
By Viola | July 19, 2007
The Purpose of Relationships is not Happiness, but Transformation
We all know that relationships can be such a challenge, especially when life pulls us in opposite directions at the same time.
Isn’t it surprising how many people go through life not ever recognising that how they feel about other people is largely determined by how they feel towards themselves? If we are not comfortable within ourselves, we cannot be comfortable with anyone else.
Most peoples focus lies on how they are different from others as their personality feels the need to be unique and special . Differences hold the capacity to develop conflict, but at the same time, our souls live through connection with others.
We are always challenged to grow above our personal preferences, so that we can discover how we and others are the same. Think about it, as the overall need lies in finding the balance of these two tendencies.
Topics: Personal Development |
July 20th, 2007 at 6:31 am
Excellent post Viola - well said! x
July 20th, 2007 at 7:39 am
Thank you - I hope that some will think about it and that it will leave an ‘impression’ to be acted on.
July 24th, 2007 at 3:42 pm
Thanks for reminding me. And I think that you are right, we cannot be happy with anyone else if we are not happy with ourselves.