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How to Mend a Broken Heart | I am NO Expert, but Self Love is a Succulent Gift
By Viola | June 17, 2007
How to Mend a Broken Heart | I am NO Expert, but Self Love is a Succulent Gift
How can we mend a broken heart?
How can we stop the rain from falling?
How can we stop the sun from shining?
Stop the rain from falling? Stop the sun from shining? Is this really what we want?
I have asked myself this question many, many, many times in my life and I guess that could be something to “argue” about….
I don’t know why, but even I felt lonely tonight.
I decided to lay in my garden on my bench with loads of cushions, listening to my favourite music, with the sun blinder drawn to catch the rain drops and watching them roll down the blinder to just hit the floor……..
I laid there for ages thinking……. starting to feel the cold……. wishing to share the moment in time with someone…. but also knowing that the greatest gift I can give to myself is loving myself and therefore I wouldn’t feel lonely……….
…………..I am definately no expert and I certainly don’t have all of the answers, but I have been through a tremendous amount of experiences in my life and I am not only talking relationships………..but isn’t life and the choices we make what shapes us all? What “makes” us who we are? Who we have become? And if you think about it, aren’t you just grateful for all of your experiences? Of who you are? What you have become? NO doubt, I am!!
The greatest gift that we can receive is loving ourselves… in all aspects of our lives.
Love is the sweet nectar of our soul from which springs forth true abundance, bliss, as well as peace…the fountain of love and deep appreciation.
Loving yourself deeply will surprise you by the riches that come into your life as well as all the things that you have longed for that can be yours, provided that you live from a deep and unending well of self-love.
Don’t ever wish for the rain from falling….
Don’t ever wish for the sun from shining….
ENJOY and if you like let me know how it is that you feel!!
Topics: Secret Diary |
June 18th, 2007 at 9:11 am
Dear Viola,
you are so right, Don’t ever wish for the rain from falling - rain brings freshness to the earth and to our lives when things have become old and dusty and we need to freshen up. water is the giver of life, as is the sun… the next time anyone feels miserable on a rainy day, just think the rain is not a bad thing, it washes away the old, and brings the new. Don’t you just love the smell of fresh rain? Don’t ever wish for the sun from shining… the sun brings so much joy and lifts everyones moods to a new high. After it has rained and the sun shines and the birds are singing, life is just wonderful.
Isnt it amazing when you look back on life and see the rich tapestry your life is? All things that happen to us, whether good or bad are designed to aid our growth and evolution. No matter how small or large a lesson, it all adds to who we are today. Look back on your lives, im sure you wouldn’t want to change anything, even if it was a harsh lesson, or you wouldn’t be where you are today.
Thanks for listening
June 18th, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Gracie - thanks for your comments. I like how you see the rain and the sun