21
July

What does love mean: Touching words from the mouths of babes

What does love mean? Touching words from the mouths of babes

Submitted by Anonymous

I absolutely love these ‘babe’ quotes. They are so innocent. And their perception ist JUST beautiful.

What does love mean?

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds. The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined. See what you think:

When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis, too. That’s love.” — Rebecca, 8

When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different. You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.”
– Billy, 4

Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.” — Karl, 5

Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your french fries without making them give you any of theirs.”
– Chrissy, 6

Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.” — Terri, 4

Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.”
– Danny, 7

Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss.” — Emily, 8

Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.” — Bobby, 7

If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.”
– Nikka, 6

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.” — Noelle, 7

Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.” — Tommy, 6

During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.” — Cindy, 8

My mommy loves me more than anybody. You don’t see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.” — Clare, 6

Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.” — Elaine, 5

Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.” — Chris, 7

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.” — Mary Ann, 4

I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.” — Lauren, 4

When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.” — Karen, 7

Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn’t think it’s gross.” — Mark, 6

You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.” — Jessica, 8

And the final one.

Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge. The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child. The winner was a 4-year-old child whose next door neighbour was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife. Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman’s yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbour, the little boy said, “Nothing, I just helped him cry.”

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16
July

Homeschooling – Why are YOU not doing it?

Homeschooling – Why are YOU not doing it?

If you are not homeschooling already, have you ever thought about it or even considered it? Maybe you should be seriously thinking about who’s really ‘bringing up’ your kids.

I have raised 5 children myself and NO, unfortunately I did not homeschool. I didn’t even know it was ‘allowed’ or even at all possible. Raising 5 kids, going to work, running a household, cleaning, shopping…and yes, I even used to bake my own bread every day for a family of SEVEN. But I didn’t homeschool and I could have done it myself and to be honest, if I had the choice again, it be homeschooling for my kids, that’s for sure. NO DOUBT!

You tell me, what is the reason having kids if they are brought up by a teacher, a person you don’t even know. You know nothing about. You never heard of. You never even seen before???

Not that I’m religious, FAR FROM IT!!!BUT even the Bible states that parents are to teach their children at all times (Deut. 6:7).

My daughter Ina will homeschool my grandaughter Aiyana. Aiyana is almost 3 years of age and learning is their way of life and not something that occurs at certain times or maybe in a certain place.

Check Ina’s website on homeschooling by clicking on the link below:
www.home-schooling-uk.com

Did you know that John Stuart Mill, Patrick Moore, William Blake, Yehudi Menuhin, Bertrand Russell and even Her Majesty the Queen have been homeschooled? Well, what’s good enough for Her Majesty is certainly good enough for our children.

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13
July

Love and Time

Love and Time

Submitted by Anonymous

I LOVE this story….very meaningful to me…

LOVE and TIME

Once upon a time, there was an island where all the feelings lived:
Happiness, Sadness, Knowledge, and all of the others, including Love.

One day it was announced to the feelings that the island would sink, so all constructed boats and left. Except for Love.

Love was the only one who stayed. Love wanted to hold out until the last possible moment.

When the island had almost sunk, Love decided to ask for help.

Richness was passing by Love in a grand boat. Love said:
“Richness, can you take me with you?”
Richness answered, “No, I can’t. There is a lot of gold and silver in my boat. There is no place here for you.”

Love decided to ask Vanity who was also passing by in a beautiful vessel. “Vanity, please help me!”
“I can’t help you, Love. You are all wet and might damage my boat,” Vanity answered.

Sadness was close by so Love asked, “Sadness, let me go with you.”
“Oh . . . Love, I am so sad that I need to be by myself!”

Happiness passed by Love, too, but she was so happy that she did not even hear when Love called her.

Suddenly, there was a voice:

“Come, Love, I will take you.” It was an elder. So blessed and overjoyed, Love even forgot to ask the elder where they were going. When they arrived at dry land, the elder went her own way. Realizing how much was owed the elder.

Love asked Knowledge, another elder, “Who Helped me?”
“It was Time,” Knowledge answered.
“Time?” asked Love. “But why did Time help me?”
Knowledge smiled with deep wisdom and answered, “Because only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.”

Only Time is capable of understanding how valuable Love is.

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4
July

Sex Versus Love – Love Versus Sex?

Sex Versus Love

Yesterday Frederick submitted a ‘Poem’ at www.luvy.org for posting – Hmmmm, I don’t know? I suppose quite interesting! Not sure if I would call it a Poem though. Read it at luvy and see what you think:

www.Luvy.org – Sex Versus Love

My suggestion is we ‘turn’ this around, but even then, some of it does not really make ‘sense’, if you can even call it that.

Love Versus Sex

Love prolongs life
Sex shortens it.

Love is something upbeat
Sex is plummeting down.

Sex is larger than life
Love is life itself, no frills attached.

Love is like saving money
Sex is like spending money.

Sex is chaos
Love is peace and order.

Love raises self esteem
Sex makes you vulnerable.

Sex is selfishness
Love is toleration.

Love is exchanging energy
Sex is wasting it.

Sex is hell on earth
Love is heaven on earth.

Sex is sleepless nights
Love is sweet dreams.

Sex is a narcotic dependence
Love is detoxification.

Sex is spartan and redundant
Love is simple and quintessential.

Sex is commitment and chastity
Love is friendship and reminiscence.

How does reading this ‘feel’?

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27
May

Lines that Divide Us – WATCH YOUR WORDS!

Lines that Divide Us – WATCH YOUR WORDS!

Everyone should be watching this. It is quite upsetting, sad, almost depressive to watch that even the most seemingly benign comments can separate us from each other and the effect we have on others.

We have all been judged at some point in the past. BUT, if YOU have judged others and if you felt that your judgement was meaningless, NO matter how small your judgement, you HAVE to watch this video.

This is powerful stuff and I hope it will make us all think and re-consider how we all treat others and what impact it has on life. How would you feel to walk in someone else’s shoes?

The Teen Files – Part 2: Lines that Divide Us

Why has this video only been viewed 63.900 times since October 2006? I hope you are passing it on for everyone to watch and think about the impact we have on each others life’s.

For more related info click here: http://www.challengeday.org/video/teenfiles/index.html

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2
March

The Wooden Bowl | Sometimes Grandfather Had a Tear in His Eye

The Wooden Bowl | Sometimes Grandfather Had a Tear in His Eye

The story below reminds me once again of how remarkable perspective children are.

Children’s eyes observe… their ears listen… their minds process the ‘messages’ they absorb.

A frail old man went to live with his son, daughter-in law and four-year – old grandson.

The old man’s hands trembled, his eyesight was blurred, and his step faltered.

The family ate together at the table. But the elderly grandfather’s shaky hands and failing sight made eating difficult. Peas rolled off his spoon onto the floor. When he grasped the glass, milk spilled on the tablecloth.

The son and daughter-in-law became irritated with the mess. ‘We must do something about father,’ said the son. I’ve had enough of his spilled milk, noisy eating, and food on the floor.’

So the husband and wife set a small table in the corner. There, Grandfather ate alone while the rest of the family enjoyed dinner. Since Grandfather had broken a dish or two, his food was served in a wooden bowl.

When the family glanced in Grandfather’s direction, sometimes he had a tear in his eye as he sat alone.

Still, the only words the couple had for him were sharp admonitions when he dropped a fork or spilled food.

The four-year-old watched it all in silence.

One evening before supper, the father noticed his son playing with wood scraps on the floor.

He asked the child sweetly, ‘What are you making?’ Just as sweetly, the boy responded, ‘Oh, I am making a little bowl for you and Mama to eat your food in when I grow up.’ The four-year-old smiled and went back to work.

The words so struck the parents so that they were speechless.

Then tears started to stream down their cheeks.

Though no word was spoken, both knew what must be done.

That evening the husband took Grandfather’s hand and gently led him back to the family table.

For the remainder of his days he ate every meal with the family. And for some reason, neither husband nor wife seemed to care any longer when a fork was dropped, milk spilled, or the tablecloth soiled.

Children should see us provide patiently a happy atmosphere at home for all family members, as they will copy/imitate that attitude for the rest of their own lives and that building blocks are laid for its future. Don’t you agree?

… Be a role model… Take care of yourself, … and those around you!

Related reading:
What is LOVE?

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6
February

Be My Valentine – DONT Be Fooled By Chocolate!

Be My Valentine – DONT Be Fooled By Chocolate!

Valentine - Chunky Valentines

With Christmas still being a ‘recent’ memory, I find it hard to believe that Valentine’s Day is just around the corner. Once again many consumers are out shopping for chocolate.

Due to the continued reports of chocolates ‘remarkable’ health benefit’s, the rush to buy it is even stronger this year. What consumers don’t realise is, that once again they have been deceived. Scientific research states that typical processed chocolate products have virtually NONE of the health benefits that have been attributed to chocolate.

To make the chocolate taste less bitter, the bitter alkaloids have been removed. Than they are mixed/blended with refined sugars and of course unhealthy fats, which creates the ‘finished’ product. The result is a product with no real health benefits. All we have is a diabetes-inducing, fat-expanding chocolate ‘product’. Processed chocolate and chocolate bars are no more than junk foods!

REAL chocolate has a number of impressive health benefits, such as brain, liver and heart function. Has anti-cancer properties and is loaded with anti-oxidants. To me there is no other way to enjoy a more delicious way with such health benefits than eating chocolate!

We are lucky enough that there are companies out there that are selling real chocolate products.

Check out the links below:

www.royalhimalayan.com

www.naturaw.com

www.empoweredfoods.com

www.wildbar.info

www.sunfood.com

www.goldenbean.com

www.chocolatesuperfoods.com

www.fortinachocolate.com

www.rawgoddesschocolate.com

www.gnosischocolate.com

Remember that ONLY minimally processed chocolate has any health benefits.

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30
November

Free Hugs – The Video

Free Hugs – The Video

Free Hugs

Sometimes, a hug is all what we need. Free hugs is a real life controversial story of Juan Mann. A man whos sole mission was to reach out and hug a stranger to brighten up their lives. In this age of social disconnectivity and lack of human contact, the effects of the Free Hugs campaign became phenomenal.

As this symbol of human hope spread accross the city, police and officials ordered the Free Hugs campaign BANNED. What we then witness is the true spirit of humanity come together in what can only be described as awe inspiring.

In the Spirit of the free hugs campaign, PASS THIS TO A FRIEND and HUG A STRANGER! After all, If you can reach just one person…

Music by Sick Puppies

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26
November

Can | Dick Hoyt | Worlds Strongest Dad in The World

Can | Dick Hoyt | Worlds Strongest Dad in The World

Isn’t it that every year around this time, the media is flooded with articles and stories about gratitude. And of course, it makes us all “feel good” for a few days before we move on to complaining. We forget to respect and honour what is right in our lives, NO matter how small… each day.

Gratitude is not an issue for Dick and Rick Hoyt. They are a father and son team who have competed in over than nine hundred road races, marathons, triathlons and other athletic endeavours. Dick is in his late 60s and Rick, his son is in his 40s and he has been wheelchair bound without the ability to speak since birth. Together they are a team and have been an inspiration for thousands of people. One of the most touching videos I’ve seen.

Eighty-five times Dick pushed his disabled son, Rick, 26.2 miles in marathons. Eight times he’s not only pushed him 26.2 miles in a wheelchair, but also towed him 2.4 miles in a dinghy while swimming, and pedalled him 112 miles in a seat on the handlebars and that ALL IN THE SAME DAY!!!!

Rick Rielly recently wrote in Sports Illustrated:

This love story began in Winchester , Mass. , 43 years ago, when Rick was strangled by the umbilical cord during birth, leaving him brain-damaged and unable to control his limbs.

“He’ll be a vegetable the rest of his life;” Dick says doctors told him And his wife, Judy, when Rick was nine months old. “Put him in an Institution.”

But the Hoyts weren’t buying it. They noticed the way Rick’s eyes followed them around the room. When Rick was 11 they took him to the engineering department at Tufts University and asked if there was anything to help the boy communicate. “No way,” Dick says he was told. “There’s nothing going on in his brain.”

“Tell him a joke,” Dick countered. They did. Rick laughed. Turns out a lot was going on in his brain. Rigged up with a computer that allowed him to control the cursor by touching a switch with the side of his head, Rick was finally able to communicate. First words? “Go Bruins!” And after a high school classmate was paralyzed in an accident and the school organized a charity run for him, Rick pecked out, “Dad, I want to do that.”

Yeah, right. How was Dick, a self-described “porker” who never ran more than a mile at a time, going to push his son five miles? Still, he tried. “Then it was me who was handicapped,” Dick says. “I was sore for two weeks.”

That day changed Rick’s life. “Dad,” he typed, “when we were running, It felt like I wasn’t disabled anymore!”

I suggest to watch the video… then watch it again… and again… move beyond talking about being grateful once a year. Start to live Gratitude!

At the time of my posting the video had 7,424,888 viewings on youTube.


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